My friends want to marry
It somehow makes me down as my university coursemates are going to marry this June. We are invited to the ceremony, should be proud of that as we are 2 in 20 (2 tables for friends).
This makes me think, what is marriage? when is the suitable time for marriage? In the age of 25, while some have already a mother of few kids, i’m still working (just started), honestly i do think of marrying and settle down. wakakaka~~Funny hor? Not really sure whether it is under hormone influence, human nature, or "peer pressure"?
Marriage, is not merely because one wants to marry. Not because you want to be posted together while working nor you want to tie your partner up. the worst thing is, when people marry because, OMG, no menstruation since last month! marry with no reason, only because of unexplainable true love and desire to lead life together.
I think, i will only consider marrying when i think i;m secure and better after married. If marriage burden me, i rather be single.
I think will be clearer, if u know what is responsibility, accountability, and trustworthy.
