My definition of GOOD man
KY’s Goodman Tag
I’m not the most famous blogger, KY. I’m Kit Yeng.
I’m not a professional journalist. I’m an ordinary girl reaching out for a good man and listing all the criterias out for you, guys…as hint or as a guidance.
1. Concern and care on her needs especially, don’t ever let her wait when she is hungry and don’t ask her to eat mee maggi with u after waiting.
2. Be romantic. Buy her souvenirs and small gift no matter how small it is, it shows you are thoughtful, she is pampered.
3. Promise her. Girl welcomes promises. NO matter how much u might fullfill, thanks for bothering to tell me all these to cheer me up, to sweeten my day." I can’t promise u how long can i love u as i don’t want to cheat u/make fake promise" WTF…wouldn’t it better if he said " I will love u even though death pull us apart, i still want to be your man for next coming life.."?
4. Bring her to the jewelry shop. YOu migh not afford but let her having to dream to have the ring put by u. DON"T ever say:" got money u buy yourself" or "go la, no money can’t buy la"
5. Be generous. Girl hates stingy man. Not wasteful. when he starts to count on uncountable things when u eat and spend, no more joy and life."this steak costs RM30? after eating will FLY ar?" A romantic candles lite dinner will be ruined if he said " i can put on 2 candles at home for u and we ta pao back"
6. Be sporty. Most of the girls love sportsman, not professional players but at least you join some sports. Men looks great when sweating~
7. Be there for her. Trust her. When she complaint to you, don’t just focus on right or wrong but let her knows u are by her side. "That fat guy bullied me and took my carpark, and he stared at me!(angry)" Don’t say " if u said like that u are no manners like him..it’s his ability to park 1st". Please say " yeah, he is really rude, but don;t angry at this kinda person, sweet heart. not worth"
8. Be thankful. Dont think she is your maid to ready everything for u. Don’t take for granted. Thanks what she did for u and really appreciate her.
And so much more….to treat a girl well, is very easy. Be attentive and lovely.
I tag u for being a good man, to all the girls; i curse you for ruining the girl’s love life.
I welcome guy’s critics and question/query; i welcome girl’s add on.
on June 22nd, 2008 at 1:53 am
thank, dear sister.
Take care, see u soon in kedah
it will be a great guide for me. Cheer up!! i sure “he” soon will be getting better and treat u what u wishing for so long. Anyway, i always be ur side, as a brother.
on June 22nd, 2008 at 2:03 am
Hahah…not refering for anyone but everyone. I want everyone to get the best of Love. Love is winderful rite? Wish u meet your love one soon!
on October 23rd, 2008 at 5:47 am
Hi, I am Peg’s boy friend. Not sure why she shows me your blog, may be she has the same view as you. My comments on myself as below:
1. Hmmn… won’t la~ I always encourage her to eat more.
2. Small gift ah? How often is considered as often leh? Birthday buy her Flowers, eh… sometimes treat her eat nice food, sometimes wat her treat me nice food, ok ma?
3. Kakaka~ 肉麻话？Do it occasionally,
4. She brought me, I think I did ask her buy it by herself, I am bad.
5. I like to eat too, this won’t happen to me, hahahaha~
6. Eh~ will try my best, coz I am nerd, now learning dancing with Peg and I dance like a wood.
7. Well, I always analyze the situation and explain to her very gently. Coz I believe as an adult, we should know how to control ourselves although scientifically, we are type of animals.
8. I think Peg influenced me a lot on this, I confirm I practice this everyday. Thank you babe for showing me this blog!